I know I have talked about pride before, in fact many times.
Ha ha. But I once again feel nothing but pride again. The BBQ was a huge
success. We didn’t get the numbers I wanted but hey I always want more so we
can help more. If thousands turning up than I’d want more. A lot of people that
turned up did get help and for some in a huge way. To me that’s what it’s all
about.
As you would expect Bernie the Polite Girl, me and of course
my little daughter “Jasmine the Polite Little Girl” turned up first about 7:30am
with marquees and tables with the help of a few helpers. I remember thinking as
we started about how my health has been bad with my back and the Leukaemia
treatments and the fact that ‘Bernie the Polite Girl’ had done most of the work
putting all this together, this is it, we have planned and worked hard for this
day and all of us seemed excited that we were going to help so many. Which to
me was nothing but heart.
Dalton’s Hospitality’s made an entrance with 5 big vehicles
holding the kitchen for this event and all I could think of was how huge and
great this is going to be. Now I’ve done a few of these BBQ’s and every-time
it’s getting better. I know some really great people now too.
This being a bigger event then I have ever done Bernie the
Polite Girl and I worked as a team putting everything together, the kitchen,
marquees, tables, all the organizations set up their stalls to give information
about their services, clothes were stacked up at the ready to given away for
free, and the music was playing. We were ready.
We started being so proud that so many helpers came and gave
up their time to help people in need when they needed it most. Bernie the
Polite Girl and I kept putting homeless people with working people and saying things
like “could you go with (name of person) and help him to get clothes and
anything he needs please.” The idea is that a homeless person would not be
alone and have what we thought was like a Buddy System. In a lot of cases it
worked well and we could see working people sitting and talking with homeless
on an equal level. As one unit.
The reason we thought this was such a great idea was because
we thought if the homeless person felt more uplifted having a friend and
talking to someone who was there to help and not care that they were homeless.
(really anyone that came to help wanted to help someone that was homeless so
why would they) Now I can’t take credit for this because it was Bernie’s idea.
I think it worked well.
There was another reason and that’s, that we felt if working
people spend more time with a or many homeless then it would hit home more
about what it is like to be homeless. More of an understanding and some of the
reasons why they were homeless.
We had many people thank us on the day and for some saying
“It really opened my eyes, thank you for putting this event together” that’s
working people thanking me for being able to help homeless and see why they
were in the position they were in.
Come on guys we don’t need to put on an event for you to see
or help homeless, these homeless people are someone’s Brothers, Sisters,
Mothers, Grand Parents.
I’d like to let
people know that I didn’t do this on my own, I reached out and some amazing
organizations banded together and said I’m there and helping anyway we can.
These guys are who really put these BBQ’s together. All heart, I owe them so
much for what they do. This is really the community coming together to help.
But the one person that did more than anyone even me was Bernie the Polite Girl.
I’m sure this event wouldn’t have happened without her working so hard. I can’t
thank her enough.
Our Major Contributors are:
Craig from Connected.
This guy has help since my very first BBQ and really helped
me out when I got started. Awesome with everything he does. I’m proud just to
know him.
Dalton’s Hospitality.
Jerome Dalton is a legend with the golden heart he has. When
Jerome found out about this event he raised his hand and said he’d take care of
all food for a 1,000 homeless. He brought his amazing crew of Dalton’s
Hospitality with all equipment for the day. It was 5star food and fresh juice
making machines drinks all the way. While working hard getting all the cooking
done Jerome also meet Wayne (a guy very much down on his luck and gave him a
job to start the next day) I’m writing this in more detail later on.
Now when the event was done and finished Jerome’s crew
packed up and finished, but this amazing guy stayed back to help us pack too. I
am hard to impress, but with everything Jerome done I was impressed. I am proud
to call Jerome a mate. Thank you
A & G Insurance
I contacted Ram (CEO of A & G Insurance) the guy right
away wanted to know what he could do to help with this amazing event. They
supplied a huge tent for shade and paid for the bus hire so we could pick
people up and return from the Valley and Spring Hill. Now if that was it well awesome.
But no Ram with the help of Robert put together 25 staff to come as helpers on
the day and yes Ram and Robert were one of the first at the event. Bernie the
polite Girl and I was proud to introduce them to many homeless. I think both
Ram and the homeless got a lot out of it on the day. Thank you
Streetsmart
Are an amazing organization which donated $500 towards this
event and helped to promote the event which Bernie put this together and did
all the work with this one. Streetsmart are going to be meeting us in the
future to help us to get better results. We need all the help we can get. Ha ha.
Thank you
Second Bite.
These guys are so good, they turned up with ONE TONNE of
fruit for this event and really helped make this event that much more awesome. Once
again Bernie did all the contacts and made this happen. Thank you
There were so many organizations that came and even people
that helped in such a huge way on their own. I thank you and will get to write
about a lot of you as I go.
Wayne the Man.
Wayne lives in a lodge which his long term girlfriend lives
in a lodge next door because it’s cheaper for them. These lodges are cheap but
not nice. But there better off than being on the streets.
Wayne is the type of the guys we are always looking for when
trying to help someone because all he talked about is getting on his feet and
getting over the hard times he’s facing. I told him to come to the BBQ and we
could help with job interview clothes and things like that. Well he turned up
and went straight for the clothes and I noticed that he really was looking for
job interview clothes.
I was busy with everything else with the BBQ but I pulled
Wayne aside and said mate does it matter what kind of work your looking for? He
said Grant I just want to get on my feet as soon as I can. I asked him to wait
seated for a moment and went straight to my mate Jerome Dalton and said “Mate I
have someone just down on his luck, but I really think he’s trying so would you
consider just talking to him?” Jerome looked around at all the people in need
and said right away “Of course mate I’d be happy to”
They meet and sat on the grass to talk. Wayne came to me
hugged me, thanking me many times and was so excited to be having a job. He
started to tear up and I quickly told him not to because we have to quickly get
him work clothes and shoes for kitchen work, but the real reason was if he
started tears then I would too because I was so happy for him. We got him
clothes and the right shoes for him. He continued to thank me many of times
when I stopped him and said “Mate I need a favour” he said “anything Grant” I
said “Mate get on your feet and then come back and help someone else on the
next BBQ” He hugged me again and said “Mate you got it”
I have a tear now because while writing this 5 days after
that event, I know he worked everyday and done 35 hours. Jerome is happy with
him and I know it’s a great start for Wayne to get on his feet. I wish Wayne
all the best and I’ll always be here if he falls off the tracks again.
This is why I do these BBQ and help people, because people
get help.
I know a lot of people have sent me a mountain of emails
saying how great I was because of this event, I wish I could take the credit
but I can’t because Bernie the Polite Girl did most of planning and putting it all
together. She even put together most of the organizations that came. My health
has be pretty bad so I wouldn’t have been able to do it without her.
Bernie the Polite Girl will be taking over these BBQ’s as my
replacement, but don’t worry I will always be here to help her with everything
I have as well. I just want to make sure these events go on because we do help
so many.
I’d like to thank you all for reading my blog and I hope you
all have a great day.
Grant the Polite Guy
Twitter @grantpoliteguy